How To Maintain A Discreet Relationship
If you are in a relationship that you're trying to keep discreet, for whatever reason, there are certain things that you must keep in mind if you hope to keep the relationship secret. For one, you had better get your stories straight, both yours and the one you plan on having a discreet relationship with. That way, if any questions are asked of either of you, your stories will match. Another thing you need to keep in mind is to keep any evidence of your discreet knowledge put away or hidden from others. It can be a lot of work, more work than many people realize but a discreet relationship can be an exciting and exhilarating experience for both involved. And, if both of you are careful, you'll never get caught.
What Are The Reasons For Having A Discreet Relationship?
People get into discreet relationships for all sorts of reasons. Some of them are married or have a girlfriend or boyfriend and are seeing someone on the side. It doesn't sound very honorable or good natured, but, unfortunately, it happens every day. Or, it could be a relationship that others frown upon, such as the relationship between a student and teacher, or maybe it's a relationship that friends or parents disprove of that you still wish to pursue. Whatever the reason, the idea is to be as careful as you can so that your discreet relationship stays as hidden as possible.
When the two of you meet for your discreet relationship, you need to be very conscious of all evidence of you two together. Clean your car out to make sure there are no items/hair or other personal things left behind that could give your discreet relationship away. It's amazing how one long hair can give everything away.
Secondly, make sure that all correspondence between you two are hidden. Text messages on the phone as well as emails should be erased or saved in a discreet location so that they are not read by others. Phone calls are risky, too, as phone records could possibly be read, giving the discreet relationship away.
Above all, it pays to be able to explain away the discreet relationship in case the two of you are found out. Tell people the other person is your tutor, personal trainer or something else. Sure, it's lying, but it's only a white lie and, besides, if it will keep your discreet relationship a secret, it's the best thing for you to do in case anyone ever arises suspicion.